DIRTY

yeah...lets talk about the forbidden.....somethin so very prevalent yet so much of inhibition attached to it...somethin which helps in sustainin life yet the very mention of it brings in a sense of disgust in so many people....you are not supposed to talk about it....openly...yeah you can talk about it amongst your close friends and your in circle(this is particular in case of girls) yet you cannot go to your science professor and start questioning about it.......dats considered a blasphemy.......I am talkin bout dat three letterd word called SEX...n I bet regardless of wat one says it is mankind's favourite word....Everyone likes it and every on likes talkin about it...It is so very open yet so very prohibited......n I guess dat particular gentleman was right when he said....Sex is an over rated creature...And the case becomes even more particular when it comes to India....We Indians are supposed to be cultured,well mannered,value oriented....in short a model human being...so we don't talk about sex....d rule is simple and it is well maintained .....When the time comes you yourself will come to know about it....your parents are not goin to utter even a word....no way they are goin to teach you to sin....so how do you learn....It didnt took me long to learn about it....n i guess its the same with the majority of us...Sex education was a word very alien to our society(n i guess things havent changed much..)...I didnt have anyone teach me about sex.....I was priviledged to pursue my high school education from a catholic boys school and in my case it was my company through which i became aquainted with the forbidden....The first time i got to hear abour it....it came as a shock...I was kinda stunned..excited....curious....Curiosity....like many people before also made me to do a bit of research....The Oxford English dictionary....The encyclopaedias......The video tapes....the magazines....all helpin my cause...n enhancing my knowledge....N i guess my story lines not very different or extraordinary...I guess everyone learns it the same secretive way out here....No one's complainin n every one's happy....But then is it the correct approach....I mean is it the way you get to know about the process which helps in thrivin life on this planet.India is the land of the KAMASUTRA,KHAJURAHO....We worship the phallus over here(what else do you think the shivling is..)Yet we are so very dodged down..So very shy......We are required to study Shakespeare,Voltaire,Napoleon,Newton,Gandhi......but not sex....the very process through which these great men were able to set foot on earth and change the course of history....its kinda funny and its kinda sad....I guess its time sex comes out of the closet..with AIDS looming like a dagger over mankind and the growing number of teen and preteen pregnancies is nt it just rational that we Start educating the younger folks about it...start a curriculum....so that their curiosity is dealt in a better way ....a safer way...I guess the answer should be an overwhelming yes.....the netherlands in this case is avery good example....Also I guess the parents should make it a point of telling the younger folks about sex....Things like masturbation and watching pornography should not exactly deemed a sin....rather make the guys understand them.....I guess it is easier said than done considering the inhibition attached .......N what about prostitution..time and again their have been uproars of legalising prostitution....n i guess it is rightly done....I believe it is an infinite times better to visit a prostitute than raping a young woman on the corner of the street...Legalising prostitution..I guess will also help in curbing human traffiking with proper legal intervention....Because it will be a business entity(like any other business house..)...rather than being a social stigma.....Also it comes as a boon for those individuals who cannot get LOVE.....They can atleast buy LOVE and i dont think there is nt any wrong in that....I guess thats all I gotta say and I believe my friends will undertake he pain of reading this whole shit and also expressin their views because only then i ll be a bit convinced that I was able to make a point................LOVE........